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Way Off Topic!sorry - IbDaToNeGuY - 10-15-2008
hey Don , i'm real sorry about all this . tho i've never had this kind of thing happen but i did lose i close friend in highschool after he changed schools and we kind of left things bad so i never got a chance to say i was sorry . but as you already knew , i have a really small family and it would be devistating to go through something like what you are now . if you need to talk about anything , you have my number and i'm real sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers go out to you and his family . <img src=\"style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/confused.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":confused:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"confused.gif\" /> mike,
Way Off Topic!sorry - tcm_best - 10-15-2008
WoW bro .... <img src=\"style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\"
\" border=\"0\" alt=\"sad.gif\" /> I'm so sorry for you,My prayers are with you !
Way Off Topic!sorry - imperialhockmaster - 10-15-2008
<!--quoteo(post=280300:date=Oct 15 2008, 07:12 AM:name=Hellbilly1965)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(Hellbilly1965 @ Oct 15 2008, 07:12 AM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=280300\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecyou asked for advice?to start with i did read your post.Heres my advice to you..1- Nothing good ever comes from drinking, ever hear ANYONE say "drinking is the best thing that ever happened to me"?2- Leave the 2$ whores where they belong, on the street corner. ( you cant turn a whore into a house wife).3- The guy attempted to commit MURDER... scumbag!4- you said he was in your top 5?, well you have four left... 4 outta 5 aint bad..5- why would you post something like this about someone you say you cared about? strange...what have you learned from your "friends" tragic ending?and no i wont pat you on the back or hand you a hanky, thats not what you need..D.<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEnd Thanx guys for all the support, and for hellbilly, first of all my friend wasnt a scumbag, and his wife wasnt a $2 whore, its funny i ask for advise or similar situations anyone might have, and you got opinions, i didnt ask for opinion, i know what he did was wrong, no shit, but it doesnt change the way he lived his life, sometimes things can spiral out of control, ive even been in his situation, all i needed to do was pull the trigger and i too would not be here, he helped me thru my divorce and checked on me everyday till i was right in the head again, he was a loving father, an excellent hunter, very skilled hard worker, his wife wasnt a whore, they were very open in there relationship, not a jealous bone in his or her body, just plain cool people, and why would i post something like this about someone i cared so much about you ask, well because i am hurting inside, ive seen how people come together hear and offer great advise and just willing to listen and off condolences, i havent but a handful of friends i even talk to on a personal level, so i was hoping to relieve some of the pain by hearing what people had to say about my situation, and yea i wasnt born yesterday bro i know alchohol isnt the answer, i mean look where it got my buddy, and thats what bothers me is i know him, he was decient and would never hurt anyone, he just wasnt himself, depression is a motherfucker, and can eat away at your soul till eventually all thats left is pain and thoughts of what has brought you to this point, your desensitized and even mentaly unstable, its an actual condition bro, he was sick, not a scumbag, and yes your right i do have 4 more close friends, but a unique relationship with each one, dave was my hunting partner, its hunting season now, he was my drinking buddy, and right no i really want a drink, regardless man what he done doesnt change who he was before this happend, and ofcourse im glad he didnt hit the guy, to be honest dave was a sure shot, a fucking marksman, now he may have missed because he was intoxicated, but as careless and dumb as it is to play with guns when your drinking, we did it often, we would buy a shit load of ammo for both our hand guns and shotguns, set up targets, and about once or twice a month just drink and unload rounds, he always kicked my ass, drunk or not he was still a damn good shot, so not sure he was shooting to kill, but more trying to get a reaction for all the pain he felt, and being intoxicated messed with his judgement, he didnt come to his senses till it was to late, i see where you might think why would someone tell so many strangers about this on a forum, sure its odd, but no odder then people crying over thier girlfriends and looking for compassion and friendship here on the forum, Dave would have done the same thing had he went thru this with me, im really messed up over this and respect all my friends here on the forum and would be more then happy to offer some kind words for any situation they might share with us here on the forum, so anyway sorry guys im just really upset, still a whole hunting season to go, and ill be doing it with someone else now, i never imagined something like this would happen, its a real shocker, so please no harsh opinions about dave, and thanx again for being there guys... and one more thing Mr hellbilly, i dont want you to pat me on my back, or hand me a hanky, and what ive learned from this is your an asshole, and really have no idea what its like to lose a close friend, and if you do your the strange one for not feeling my pain for the loss of my friend but rather judging myself and him, what makes you so much better bro, and what kinda person calls a guys friend he just lost a scumbag and his wife a $2 whore, your the fucking scumbag, dont fucking give your opinion unless it was asked for, SORRY GUYS BUT COME ON, WHAT KINDA ASSHOLE SAYS THOSE THINGS? i started this topic to find some kind of relief, in any way i can get it, and all of you have made me smile and realize how many caring people there are, even on a horror related forum, thats whats so great about NIGHTOWL, but i guess even here theres bound to be an ass in the mix, thanx again guys for your kind words
Way Off Topic!sorry - Savage - 10-15-2008
My sincere condolences. I am very sorry for your tragic loss!
Way Off Topic!sorry - Mr_Cynical - 10-15-2008
Ill be honest, not to sound like a dick but people die everyday in the world, I really dont see exactly how people find support through a message board such as this particular one but I see alot of topics like this. I have had 2 people that were extremely close to me die during the last 2 years but I dont see the significance in posting it here?? I dunno, I guess whatever floats your boat, if you feel that posting here makes it easier on your emotions and you get some comfort then post away. Its sad when anyone dies.
Way Off Topic!sorry - hummie12 - 10-15-2008
i am sorry to hear all that man. Losing someone that is close is awful. my prayers are with you.
Way Off Topic!sorry - imperialhockmaster - 10-15-2008
<!--quoteo(post=280337:date=Oct 15 2008, 01:52 PM:name=Mr_Cynical)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(Mr_Cynical @ Oct 15 2008, 01:52 PM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=280337\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecIll be honest, not to sound like a dick but people die everyday in the world, I really dont see exactly how people find support through a message board such as this particular one but I see alot of topics like this. I have had 2 people that were extremely close to me die during the last 2 years but I dont see the significance in posting it here?? I dunno, I guess whatever floats your boat, if you feel that posting here makes it easier on your emotions and you get some comfort then post away. Its sad when anyone dies.<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndyea bro i realize this is a strange place to get comfort, as i stated it probably wasnt the rightbplace to post a topic of this nature, but i honestly spend more time with you guys then i do any of my friends, and i relate with many of you on many levels, so i figured i would see if anyone else has went thru this and maybe could share thier experience with me, thats all, i havent really had anyone to talk to about it, im friends with my buds wife as well and really dont know what to say to her, i want to ask her a ton of questions about the incident, but cant bring myself to it at this time,its just messed up, thanx for your honesty though.....
Way Off Topic!sorry - Mr_Cynical - 10-15-2008
Hmm people deal with situations like these very differently, some people like to talk about the situation a lot or talk about fond memories of the one they lost, I am the type who trys to block the event totally from my mind. It doesn't completely work but it helps me cope the best way it can I suppose. As far as questions racing through your mind, just talk to the woman, you guys are friends and can be honest with each other, even though it is a traumatizing event, if she is the kind that doesn't just wanna forget about it then she shouldn't have any problem explaining what happened and how she feels. Maybe she is the one you should seek out, her advice can probably make you feel better then the guys here.
Way Off Topic!sorry - IbDaToNeGuY - 10-15-2008
<!--quoteo(post=280337:date=Oct 15 2008, 01:52 PM:name=Mr_Cynical)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(Mr_Cynical @ Oct 15 2008, 01:52 PM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=280337\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecIll be honest, not to sound like a dick but people die everyday in the world, I really dont see exactly how people find support through a message board such as this particular one but I see alot of topics like this. I have had 2 people that were extremely close to me die during the last 2 years but I dont see the significance in posting it here?? I dunno, I guess whatever floats your boat, if you feel that posting here makes it easier on your emotions and you get some comfort then post away. Its sad when anyone dies.<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndgee who put a cherrybomb in his panties ? <img src=\"style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/rolleyes.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\"
\" border=\"0\" alt=\"rolleyes.gif\" /> but really people deal with a loss in different ways as you just stated and sometimes it helps to talk to friends about it so it doesn't build up inside and then you just lose it and get locked up in a padded room . not a problem at all that the friends he chose to share it with are all online . how many people have we seen here so far say that their dad died or maybe their brother or something and we all give out some comments to try to relieve jus ta little bit of the pain that they are feeling ? there's an " off topic " section for a reason and just because this is a mask/horror site doesn't mean ever topic has to do with a mask . this is a very helpful site in many diffeent ways other than finding a mask for halloween and when someone is in need of something then for the most part we do whatever we can . remember Chris from TT , look at how many helped out a guy that they prob. never even met before . that's just something you don't get at alot of places . i know it's nowhere close to what Don is feeling and the subject is completely different but last year i had to put down my 2 dogs in the same month and also found out my mom had some pre-cancerous cells that she had to get taken care of and for the longest time i didn't talk to many people and didn't do much of anything . so i kinda know how he's feeling when at times you want to talk to someone about it but then you can't bring yourself to it . hang in there buddy and like i said before , if you need anyhing just let me know .
Way Off Topic!sorry - FreddysNightmare - 10-15-2008
That is a tragic, sad story, I'm very sorry to hear about it Kornbread. I lost someone very close to me one year ago and I can relate to the pain you are feeling right now. I still feel the pain everyday even after one year, for me its something I have to live with. Some days are better than others. By keeping your departed friend in your heart and by thinking of those wonderful, fond times you shared together, will honour your friend and hopefully help you to feel a bit better. We should all enjoy every day of our lives and treat everyday as if it were our last, and be kind and generous to other people because nobody knows when our time will come. Whenever I hear of someone involved with a firearm in a bad situation I always have to ask, "Why are Americans allowed to own guns?" I know that some states you're not, but they should be banned as they are so dangerous and have created too much tragic loss of life over the years, its sick. But thats my opinion. Kornbread, try and keep your spirits up, you will get through this dark time, we all have to at some point in our lives. If you're ever in the UK and want a drinking partner, send me a pm. Look after yourself dude.