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Just Want To Vent - WarLocK - 10-08-2007
This has happened 3 times in the last month! Guys, if you want a piece but do not have the money or even question whether or not you can buy it... please, please do not ask for someone to hold it. It's rude, inconsiderate, and a waste of time. Whenever I hold something I have for sale... it is because I trust in the interested party to follow through and BUY it within the said amount of time. No longer will I hold any more of my items because buyers are not following through at all. It seems they either find something else at the last minute they are interested in or come up with tons of excuses. If you haven't paid your bills or your relative is in the hospital and needs your help.... I stress this * do not buy any masks!* Do not express interest or even look in the classifieds section for that matter. Just walk away from the computer and handle your real life situations first... then come back to enjoy the hobby and buy masks when you can afford them. It's simple really. It makes life easier. If I get another PM from a member on the board asking me to hold a piece... you will be ignored or will get a nice little "no" (with the exception of a few very trustworthy friends). Just wanted to get this off my mind. Thanks and have a great week!/rant=CHAD=
Just Want To Vent - jonl - 10-08-2007
Hey Chad I feel ya man, but with this hobby ya gotta be able to have patience with buyers. Most of them are paying with paper route money and b-day money. I have been waiting for a guy to pay me for my gohs 8 Hockey Mask for about 8 weeks now. It's deff tuff i know...I see what you mean though, if someone backs out thats just BS!
Just Want To Vent - WarLocK - 10-08-2007
<!--quoteo(post=240758:date=Oct 8 2007, 11:00 AM:name=jonl)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(jonl @ Oct 8 2007, 11:00 AM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=240758\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecHey Chad I feel ya man, but with this hobby ya gotta be able to have patience with buyers. Most of them are paying with paper route money and b-day money. I have been waiting for a guy to pay me for my gohs 8 Hockey Mask for about 8 weeks now. It's deff tuff i know...I see what you mean though, if someone backs out thats just BS!<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndI understand patience Jon... that is an important part. But what I'm talking about here is completely aside from that. When ordering from a maskmaker or dealing w/ a seller and communicating that you can only do payments or have to wait 2 weeks to get a paycheck etc. that is understandable - IF THE BUYER STILL HAS THE DESIRE TO FOLLOW THROUGH. What I'm talking about here is buyers who just lead you on... or play games leading you to put all things aside for them... and then you come to find out they can't purchase the item. That's not fair to the seller or other interested buyers in the hobby. While 2-3 others could have sent PMs or emails expressing interest, they didn't b/c the thread said SALE PENDING. Btw, I will not be using those words anymore. From now on, the items in my sale thread are for sale until the money is in my hands... end of story.
Just Want To Vent - Cryptoys.com - 10-08-2007
Chad, will you hold this thread for me? Thanks, Jason
Just Want To Vent - Dr Channard - 10-08-2007
<!--quoteo(post=240758:date=Oct 8 2007, 11:00 AM:name=jonl)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(jonl @ Oct 8 2007, 11:00 AM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=240758\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecI have been waiting for a guy to pay me for my gohs 8 Hockey Mask for about 8 weeks now. It's deff tuff i know...<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndThat's just crazy - it's put up or shut up. Try contacting an ebay auction and ask them to hold it for you for 8 weeks. I dont play around like that, if i see something i want i offer and pay immediately. Warlock, like he said some of these members are kids - literally like 13 years old, if someone doesn't at least give a $40 down payment right away and they cant even commit or come up with the cash for that then just move on to the next seller.I have my own pet peeve. The "make me an offer" people. I don't have time to play games, tell me how much you are willing to sell it for damnit. I'm not going to low ball, or counter offer a dozen times. Hell i usually don't even negociate. You want $400 for it, i'll take it - whats your paypal address? : lol I see "make me an offer" sales i just move on unless it's something i really want bad - even then i just PM them and ask them what they are looking to get for it. I'm gonna set a rule in the fxmasks.com classified section that you have to 1) have pics 2) name a sales price - if you want to do a highest bidder thing post the mask on ebay damnit. whew sorry <img src=\"style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/teehee.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":teehee:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"teehee.gif\" />
Just Want To Vent - WarLocK - 10-08-2007
<!--quoteo(post=240769:date=Oct 8 2007, 11:53 AM:name=Dr Channard)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(Dr Channard @ Oct 8 2007, 11:53 AM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=240769\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecThat's just crazy - it's put up or shut up. Try contacting an ebay auction and ask them to hold it for you for 8 weeks. I dont play around like that, if i see something i want i offer and pay immediately. Warlock, like he said some of these members are kids - literally like 13 years old, if someone doesn't at least give a $40 down payment right away and they cant even commit or come up with the cash for that then just move on to the next seller.I have my own pet peeve. The "make me an offer" people. I don't have time to play games, tell me how much you are willing to sell it for damnit. I'm not going to low ball, or counter offer a dozen times. Hell i usually don't even negociate. You want $400 for it, i'll take it - whats your paypal address? : lol I see "make me an offer" sales i just move on unless it's something i really want bad - even then i just PM them and ask them what they are looking to get for it. I'm gonna set a rule in the fxmasks.com classified section that you have to 1) have pics 2) name a sales price - if you want to do a highest bidder thing post the mask on ebay damnit. whew sorry <img src=\"style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/teehee.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":teehee:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"teehee.gif\" /><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndMaybe I should refer to the birthday list before finalizing a sale. <img src=\"style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tongue.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":tongue:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"tongue.gif\" />
Just Want To Vent - ColdBlooded Killer - 10-08-2007
Great post. I can't afford to buy any masks right now, so I don't even look in the classifieds haha. I sold a mask on ebay a month ago and the guy finally just paid...
Just Want To Vent - WarLocK - 10-08-2007
<!--quoteo(post=240776:date=Oct 8 2007, 12:26 PM:name=ColdBlooded Killer)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(ColdBlooded Killer @ Oct 8 2007, 12:26 PM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=240776\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecGreat post. I can't afford to buy any masks right now, so I don't even look in the classifieds haha. I sold a mask on ebay a month ago and the guy finally just paid...<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndI sold a mask on eBay a couple weeks ago. The guy tells me he needs a week to pay... I say no problem at all. A week comes around and I ask him if he's got it... he proceeds w/ this "I live in France and talked with the post office about you shipping overseas to me. Now that I've waited a week to pay and w/ shipping time I don't think it will make it to me by Halloween. I am sorry but I will have to pass. Thanks for being understanding." WTF, winning an auction is an obligation to buy. I don't care if you're broke... use a credit card or borrow money for a money order. Then sell the item on eBay again. Whatever it takes. Thank god for 2nd chance offers on eBay now. BTW, this ebay crap is all aside from the other 3 guys who have recently backed out on the forums.Honestly guys... I've been into this hobby for almost 7 years now and have never dealt with so many collectors who love to make a deal and back out on it after they've reeled you in. I guess its all coming to me at once!
Just Want To Vent - Dr.Killjoy - 10-08-2007
I totally understand what you talking about. When I first started selling my own masks I had 3 or 4 people tell me they were buying the mask but needed time to get the money, but would have it soon. So me trying to be a nice said I'd finish the masks so I could ship them out as soon as I got the cash, that way they had no wait time on the masks. One person told me they no longer want the mask and the others just never replied back. It was my own DUMB fault that I was now stuck with the masks. Someone eventually helped me sell them out but it took more time then I wanted. Now I got to have the cash or I make make them ready to ship and sell on ebay.
Just Want To Vent - Cryptoys.com - 10-08-2007
<!--quoteo(post=240777:date=Oct 8 2007, 09:30 AM:name=WarLocK)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(WarLocK @ Oct 8 2007, 09:30 AM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=240777\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecHonestly guys... I've been into this hobby for almost 7 years now and have never dealt with so many collectors who love to make a deal and back out on it after they've reeled you in. I guess its all coming to me at once!<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEnd7 years? You haven't even begun to deal with stuff. This is the only the beginning. It happens to me more and more and more as the years go by. No matter how much you try to avoid things, you won't beat them all. Chumps are inventive at waisting your time and money. Trust me on this, Jason