06-23-2007, 10:04 PM
The best advice I can give from experience is to completely wipe her out of your life. The faster you do that, the better off you are. Right now, you're best off hanging out with friends as much as possible and meeting new people. The only thing that will heal that sinking feeling is time, which is the bad news. As far as trusting someone else goes, it's a chance you have to take if you want to be happy. Most of life seems like a big gamble, so if you don't always take the chances, you may miss out big time; not that it applies to every situation in life. Life is one big learning experience, so use this as something to learn and grow from. Just stay positive and you'll make it man. Best of luck.