10-15-2008, 06:29 PM
Hmm people deal with situations like these very differently, some people like to talk about the situation a lot or talk about fond memories of the one they lost, I am the type who trys to block the event totally from my mind. It doesn't completely work but it helps me cope the best way it can I suppose. As far as questions racing through your mind, just talk to the woman, you guys are friends and can be honest with each other, even though it is a traumatizing event, if she is the kind that doesn't just wanna forget about it then she shouldn't have any problem explaining what happened and how she feels. Maybe she is the one you should seek out, her advice can probably make you feel better then the guys here.