10-16-2008, 02:06 PM
Dude.. I'm finding it pretty hard to relate your sorrow. Sure, the basic synopsis of this is sad.. a friend who thinks his wife is cheating on him discovers them together and in a fit of ragetries to kill them and then ends up shooting himself dead... sad... tragic... etc.. etc.. For that, I'm sorry for your loss...But what I personally can't relate to... is your one statement... "mean not to get to personal but me and this guy were so close we swapped ol ladys every now and then". I'm about to getmarried on 10/31 and for me, marriage is a pretty sacred thing. I just don't get how this person can swap "ol ladys" with you and still get upset that she's also with another guy? I don'tget it. But I respect everyone's desire to do what ever they want.. I don't have to agree with it.. but again, it does cause me to not feel as sympathetic as I probably would otherwise.Alcohol is no excuse for murder. There are a lot of lessons to be learned here. Hopefully, after your grieving period is over you can sit back and take a long, hard look at what happened.If there is no one else as close to you to talk to, then by all means, post away here....Take it easy man.DaveChainsaw9