10-24-2008, 08:05 PM
<!--quoteo(post=281508:date=Oct 23 2008, 11:23 PM:name=maximilian)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(maximilian @ Oct 23 2008, 11:23 PM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=281508\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecAdam .........who needs a shrink when we have you !!! that was some good advice .<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndHah! Thanks, but it's just advice learned from experiences!And yeah.. being members of the same church does create a problem. I've had a similar instance in my life. First off, I would recommend against dating girls that go to your church from now on. Problem solved there. And like other guys have said, you can still go, but don't pay her any attention. It will be VERY tough and despairing at times, but push on (a 3 year relationship is where it gets really messy <img src=\"style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/teehee.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":teehee:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"teehee.gif\" /> ). And if she does decide to come up and say hello, then say hello back but keep it short and try to get out of the conversation for YOUR sake, until it's all blown over. 2 months can easily be forgotten, feelings-wise. It's just a matter of dedication on your part to detach your heart from the situation.