11-22-2008, 11:37 PM
(This post was last modified: 11-22-2008, 11:38 PM by Homicidal#9.)
It really sounds to me like you are at a crossroads. Damned if you do, damned if you don't, so to speak. I live and breath for my wife, so the choice would be quite simple for me. Wherever she is, I know that I will be happy. In respect to the school thing, can't you take classes online from pretty much any college in the country now and not have to pay out of state tuition? If that is the case, then that may be an option to look into. Missing your relatives and hometown just takes time to get over. Those thoughts and memories and good "vibes" are alot like that security "blanket" we all had as kids. Being at home and close to family makes you feel like nothing bad can ever happen. Trips home and visits with the family always tend to feed that craving for my wife and I. By the time our families start getting on our nerves, it's good to know we can just leave and go home. It really sounds like there are many more pro's than con's in your comparison of California and Michigan, with California being dominant. The whole fakeness and cliche-ness is gonna be everywhere you go that you do not know people. Ya just gotta look for people like you and your girlfriend to associate with. Over time, you will find those people. I know I really haven't helped a lot with your whole situation, but hopefully I gave you a little insight....take care,Tommy