08-23-2009, 12:07 AM
<!--quoteo(post=326681:date=Aug 22 2009, 05:56 PM:name=dxfan)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE (dxfan @ Aug 22 2009, 05:56 PM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=326681\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecI understand both of your mentalities, but to be very brutally honest, being yourself, is just a PC thing taught to you to make every person feel like what they are on their own is good enough.....if we all just would " be ourselves" we would all be fat, lazy people......no one WANTS to go to the gym and transform there body, if just being yourself is enough....the paragraph quoted above, is about approaching a women and the first night of interaction.........i am not telling my readers to fake who they are, just push the odds in their favor so that they have a better chance for the women to be interested in a second meet up.....that is when you can let yourself shine if you like. I am not here to argue if this stuff works or not....because i know for a fact from first hand experience that it does. I have seen and been rejected by so many women just within the first 10 min of interaction , whether it be looks or what i had to say just wasnt the right things. The point is not to deceive women and set up relationships based on lies, the point is to be able to help you succeed with women so you have enough time to have her see your real redeeming qualities. Its not about putting on and act or a show, its about carefully choosing what and how you say things so you have the best odds at sparking her interest in you. There are two people who I come across who are always nay sayers to this system, they are either A) Naturals...those Alpha Male guys who just "have it". <img src=\"style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/cool.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\"B)\" border=\"0\" alt=\"cool.gif\" /> lonly men who do not think that anything they do can change their success with women.No man in his right mind is going to sit there and tell me that he wouldnt do whatever it took to get to know that beautiful swimsuit model across the room or the play boy bunny who just walked into the party......maybe my readers don't want relationships and maybe they do. No amount of teaching will change WHO YOU ARE and WHO THEY ARE GETTING TO KNOW, it is simple a teqnique to take what you do have going for you and push it to the forfront while masking your unattractive qualities.We teach about non verbal communication, i see tons of guys who go into groups of women trying to pick up on them, and everytime they crash and burn, they ask me what am i doing wrong, and i tell them......"do you notice your always fidgeting with your hands while you open a set? and they tell me...ya i sometimes do that when im nervouse.....oh yah no Sheep! i know it , the girls know it, and you know it...so stop doing it......girls dont want a nervous guy, they want a guy who is smooth and natural...I told him to put his hands in his pockets the second he things about fidgeting...he opened another set and hands in pockets, and you know what one of the girls he was talking to actually ended up a girlfriend for about 4 months.<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndActually being yourself is the best way to enter a relationship. I was myself, a girl fell in love with me, and we've been married happily ever since. The idea of people being themselves leads to laziness and obesity is absurd. Of course people go to the gym... just most don't like it. But MANY do. They aren't putting on an artificial face by going to the gym and working out. That's who they are!If NO girl falls in love with you while you're being yourself... you're either looking for women in the wrong place or you really need to spend some time working on YOU before trying to form a relationship with someone else. First impressions are critical and if you put on a mask and be someone you're not, she'll always hold that against you down the road.