Life/love Sucks

[🪦 dean7879 ●]

<!--QuoteBegin-ColdBlooded Killer+Jun 25 2007, 01:27 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(ColdBlooded Killer @ Jun 25 2007, 01:27 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBegin.  If it were me, I would have sex with as many girls as I could just to make me feel better about myself.  That's not a suggestion, just what I would do/have done in that situation.Martoch, you are way more cut than that goober.  Don't sweat it bro.<div align=\"right\"><a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=225798\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndLOL. good idea <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/thumbsup.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":thumbsup:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"thumbsup.gif\" />

[🪦 antisocial1 ●]

*shakes head* Not a good idea. That's degrading to yourself... at least in my opinion. You don't want to turn yourself into a manwhore because you got burned. If you do - be sure the women you're using know what it is and that you aren't wanting a relationship. It's never nice to take advantage of others just because you got hurt. But I guess there are a lot of people who don't care how many people they've slept with... Just don't turn sex into something meaningless... <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\"\" border=\"0\" alt=\"sad.gif\" /> That's never good.

[🪦 WHATSINTHEBOX? ●]

<!--QuoteBegin-adam+Jun 24 2007, 11:47 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(adam @ Jun 24 2007, 11:47 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBeginMaybe we should open a NIGHTOWL Assholes' Therapy site as well?  <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wink.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":wink:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"wink.gif\" />  <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":biggrin:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"biggrin.gif\" /><div align=\"right\"><a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=225732\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndHey now I care for my fellow man just like the rest. Was just tryin to lighten up the topic. Read my other reply. We all have been through this woman crap at one time or another and It sux donkey. So I am sorry if I sounded brash I keed I keed. Hell only if we can get paid like the Dr.............

[🪦 Martoch ●]

<!--QuoteBegin-antisocial1+Jun 24 2007, 11:40 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(antisocial1 @ Jun 24 2007, 11:40 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBeginAnd Martoch - that picture is definitely suggestive.  I think people are tempted to do things like that on occassion - but she may not be interested in going any further than just looking at the picture. <div align=\"right\"><a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=225734\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndSo looking at sexually suggestive pictures of "friends" should be okay in a marriage? I don't think she has plans to go any further, but it bugs the shit out of me that she wanted to look. Why would she want to look? Hmm...Thanks, ColdBlooded Killer. <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/cool.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\"\" border=\"0\" alt=\"cool.gif\" />

[🪦 Dagon ●]

Thanks for all of the advice. We spoke today (mainly for the dog's sake). She says she doesn't want to take him away from me, but she still wants to see it, yadda yadda; I told her I wanted her to see him (she is his mom after all) and that we could be civil about this whole thing. I basically told her I still loved her (that might have been a mistake, but I do) but if she found someone who could make her happier than I can, than that's who she needed to be with. She said the guy knew about me... that kind of pissed me off. If he hadn't known about me, it wouldn't have been his fault, but for him to know she was with someone else and still go after her is a asshole of a move. Still, if she cared enough, that shouldn't have made a difference. Guess we'll see what happens. I wish things could go back to the way they were, but that'll never happen. <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/down.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":down:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"down.gif\" /> <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\"ad:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"sad.gif\" />

[🪦 Martoch ●]

<!--QuoteBegin-Dagon+Jun 25 2007, 04:05 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(Dagon @ Jun 25 2007, 04:05 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBeginI basically told her I still loved her (that might have been a mistake, but I do) but if she found someone who could make her happier than I can, than that's who she needed to be with. She said the guy knew about me... that kind of pissed me off. <div align=\"right\"><a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=225841\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndYes, that was definitely a mistake...I know it's hard, but try your best to be strong in front of her. The guy knew about you??? Oh man, that's just GRRRRRRR!!!!!!!! I don't suggest you do this, but I would definitely have to whoop some ass...that's just me though. <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/mad.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":angry:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"mad.gif\" />

[🪦 Dagon ●]

<!--QuoteBegin-Martoch+Jun 25 2007, 06:13 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(Martoch @ Jun 25 2007, 06:13 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBeginYes, that was definitely a mistake...I know it's hard, but try your best to be strong in front of her.  The guy knew about you???  Oh man, that's just GRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!  I don't suggest you do this, but I would definitely have to whoop some ass...that's just me though. <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/mad.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":angry:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"mad.gif\" /><div align=\"right\"><a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=225844\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndYeah, I just had to tell her. There's been a couple of times in our relationship were she's said "We just act like friends. I want you to treat me like your girlfriend" so I couldn't help but somehow think this situation could have been avoided had I tried a bit harder to show my feelings. I'm one of those guys that just doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve, although I do care. I'd love to whoop this guys' ass, but I know that wouldn't change anything. I'm also planning on going into law enforcement as a career, so a criminal record would be counter-productive <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\"\" border=\"0\" alt=\"biggrin.gif\" /> . That friend of mine I hung out with the other day said he would whoop his ass for me if I wanted. He's a big burly redneck, so I know he could. <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":biggrin:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"biggrin.gif\" /> I just told him it wasn't worth it, but he still seemed persistent- "Friends look out for one another" he said, "I'll ask around and see where he works." Lol... Whatever he wants to do is fine with me I guess.

[🪦 Martoch ●]

Do I seriously suggest you or somebody else kicks that guy's ass? Of course not because you're right, he's not worth the time or bruised knuckles and it wouldn't change a damn thing about your situation. I just think the LAST thing your cheating ex needs to hear is how much you love her...she certainly does not deserve it. I'm completely with antisocial about going out and banging a bunch of chicks. Have I done it numerous times? Yes, but I ALWAYS let them know up front that it was strictly sex because I didn't want them to form any attachments and get hurt. I was hurt very badly once because I was lied to about her not seeing anyone else. I developed feelings, then found out she was banging three other guys. <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/confused.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":confused:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"confused.gif\" />

[🪦 Dagon ●]

<!--QuoteBegin-Martoch+Jun 25 2007, 06:31 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(Martoch @ Jun 25 2007, 06:31 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBeginDo I seriously suggest you or somebody else kicks that guy's ass?  Of course not because you're right, he's not worth the time or bruised knuckles and it wouldn't change a damn thing about your situation.  I just think the LAST thing your cheating ex needs to hear is how much you love her...she certainly does not deserve it.  I'm completely with antisocial about going out and banging a bunch of chicks.  Have I done it numerous times?  Yes, but I ALWAYS let them know up front that it was strictly sex because I didn't want them to form any attachments and get hurt.  I was hurt very badly once because I was lied to about her not seeing anyone else.  I developed feelings, then found out she was banging three other guys.  <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/confused.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\":confused:\" border=\"0\" alt=\"confused.gif\" /><div align=\"right\"><a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=225848\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndI know you are right, but like I said, I just can't help but think that this is partially my fault- afterall she did say that stuff about us just acting like friends. Maybe she figured I just didn't care. Now that she knows I do, maybe she'll feel like shit? I'm sorry to hear that about you! I guess even though I feel alone in this, there's plenty of guys out there who have had their hearts broken too. Man, life is hell. At least I can't imagine hell being too much worse- maybe just hotter.

[🪦 knewby ●]

For the love of manhood.....DO NOT confess your love to her once she's shit on you. No matter how hard it seems you MUST act like you don't care and move on. Crap she's already got you thinking its your fault she screwed another guy..gimme a break. She's just hoping you'll stand by in the shadows like a lap-dog in case her man now doesnt work out and she can have someone to fall back on and take advantage of. Dont use the dog as an excuse to talk to her either....go out..have fun.......Don't let your dignity go down the crapper.........Larry