06-23-2007, 10:25 PM
I'm a therapist and I see this ALOT. Not only that but I've been there done that. In a nutshell everyone is right. She wanted you to find those pics and the computer. She's been hiding them for so long now leaving them out is not a mistake. She figures you would find them and it so she don't have to. And thats exactly what you need to to do. Suck it up and drive on as they said in the Army. Lose all contact with her. Get rid of what reminds you (I'd keep the dog, he seems innocent...) of her and don't sit around the house and play your guys favorite song and crying, easier said than done I know. Get out of the house, go hang with friends. Having a rebound isnt always a bad idea, just dont get overly involved emotionally because your not suit to deal with that just yet. Shes not the end of the world. She messed up not you. Shes the one who lost something, you've gained insight and understanding and now know you deserve much better. Lifes not over, it just started. If you need to talk PM me. I offer free advice and will listen.