11-24-2008, 12:48 PM
(This post was last modified: 11-24-2008, 12:49 PM by LeatherfaceFan07.)
I agree with Tommy wholeheartedly. I couldn't have said it better myself. You've already got your options weighed. You've just got to ask yourself and seriously, seriously think about it, "What will make me the happiest?" It sounds to me like your girlfriend so stay with her. If you plan on being in it for the long haul like you say you are planning to, you've got to hang in there through thick and thin you know? As far as your family goes, again I must agree with Tommy. I lived out with my fiancé for a bit. It was tough financially but I loved it. At the end of the day, I could come home from school and work and not have the family nagging me and be able to go to sleep with the person I love next to me and wake up all the same. Now I'm back home and I realize why I liked living out so much and it's just as Tommy said, the family gets on your nerves and you can go home. Now I'm stuck and it's terrible whereas before I could go visit them and then go home and be in peace.