08-23-2009, 12:18 AM
<!--quoteo(post=326686:date=Aug 23 2009, 01:07 AM:name=knifegloves.com)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE (knifegloves.com @ Aug 23 2009, 01:07 AM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=326686\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecActually being yourself is the best way to enter a relationship. I was myself, a girl fell in love with me, and we've been married happily ever since.If NO girl falls in love with you while you're being yourself... you're either looking for women in the wrong place or you really need to spend some time working on YOU before trying to form a relationship with someone else. First impressions are critical and if you put on a mask and be someone you're not, she'll always hold that against you down the road.<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndyes, and by learning how to positively highlight you strengths and throw in a few tricks of the trade, you can learn to meet these women a lot faster.what if you are a great guy, have alot of good things going for you, but you just cant seem to approach women.......ur brain turns off....you get scared...so u sit in the corner of the bar like a wall flower?...................you might have great things that alot of women will be interested in...but because YOU cant initiate the conversation they will never find out? that guy is supposed to just sit and wait until he can randomly buy chance find a girl who is into " a shy guy who cant talk to girls" HA good luck!......thats is what this is all about WORKING ON YOU...not tricking women. its like saying if I learn to speak french at age 20........i should never use it to speak with people because its not WHO I AM......if you are taught something to help your life, career, or relationships...why not use it.....it becomes a part of who you are. <b>Its like trying to make a sale....say your super friendly guy and your selling washing machines, your washing machines are great ones that any family would be happy to have in their home.....but for some reason you have been at your job for 2 months and not ONE SALE....you going to feel pretty bad and do your best to change that...so you notice mark...hes the top seller so you shadow him for a few weeks, and you find out that he likes to put a little pressure on the customer...instead of saying take your time...and this is a big commitment.........he upsells the fact that these washers are energy star certified, good for the environment, and that this weeks sale wont be going on much longer.......mark hasn't lied to the customer or deceived them...he just chose to outline certain aspects of the machine with more importance than others...he makes the sale...and the family is happy </b>once again im not here to argue about the moral delimea of this or how effective it is......everyone has the right to meet people in which ever way they want.....these tools make it easier to come out of your shell...it teaches not only strait "canned" ( pre written) material....but also the basic ideas and encourges you to make up the filler for yourself, with your own interests and ideas.Not all guys want to meet there wife tonight, alot of guys just want to be able to have a good time and make women a part of their social circle.No man should have to live a life free of women just because of their own bad habits.