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[🪦 WHATSINTHEBOX? ●]

anyone ever had a long term relationship go south? anyone let the love of their life slip away? ever felt like putting a gun to your head and sayin goodbye? please help need support from older members that have been through this stuff need so much help someone throw me a rope..............................8 years done she is still here but with another lies to my face etc etc i have love that few can comprehend i have rage that is unstoppable if i cannot satisfy one i will nurture the other.......................................

[🪦 mpetrie ●]

<!--quoteo(post=289384:date=Dec 21 2008, 08:44 PM:name=WHATSINTHEBOX?)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(WHATSINTHEBOX? @ Dec 21 2008, 08:44 PM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=289384\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecanyone ever had a long term relationship go south? anyone let the love of their life slip away? ever felt like putting a gun to your head and sayin goodbye? please help need support from older members that have been through this stuff need so much help someone throw me a rope..............................8 years done she is still here but with another lies to my face etc etc i have love that few can comprehend i have rage that is unstoppable if i cannot satisfy one i will nurture the other.......................................<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndIt's hard to compare relationships but when you're really in love with someone and the other person simply has fallen out of love, it's one of the most painful things you can feel. I dated a girl for several years and she drifted away but I was still madly in love with her but she just no longer felt those same feelings for me. It's a VERY emotional time in life and one of the hardest challenges to get through. While I never have fallen out of love with her, the wounds heal and you learn to control them and stop reacting to them so much. But it takes a long time...took me years to truly get over it. But I'm now happily married to someone else and couldn't imagine my life without her now.

[🪦 imperialhockmaster ●]

Well i can tell you this bro, you may hurt now but if you take your own life everyone who loves you will hurt 10 fold, i know its tuff to lose a girl you deeply care for, but its not worth it, trust me, i had one of my best friends take his life a few months ago over his ol lady, and ill tell ya man i cant imagine what his family is still going thru, i even being a 34 yr old tuff guy find myself weeping everytime i see something that reminds me of him, i definately cant drink without crying like a babie and cursing him, it still hurts man, i havent accepted it yet, so the answer is never suicide bro. There are plenty of women out there my man, in fact the ratio is said to be at least 3 to 1, i myself lost a girl i deeply loved twice, i still love her, we were together for over 3 yrs and she decided stripping was more important, i gave a choice to quit or i would leave and as much as it hurt me she chose stripping, she only had a few months in striping and the money was coming in thick and fast, she got cought up in the lifestyle and i couldnt deal with the lies or her change, so thats why i made the choice to leave, but im telling you i never got over it, i felt like ending my life many times, but i didnt, intstead i kept my friends close and went out all the time, met many women and even got married eventually, but i still held those feelings for her! Guess what, its been 8 yrs, and shes has found me, she still loves me and wants to get to know me again, i couldnt be happier, she has opened up to me, apologized and even expressed what a mistake she made, well im not throwing myself at her but im definately taking the time to get to know her again on a serious level, the whole point im making is that it always gets better and there will always be happiness and love out there again somewhere, she may have not been the one bro, or it may not be the time, hell she could come around and you would have her back again, give life without her a chance, you will see its not so bad brother, cry if you must, let it out, just dont let it eat you alive, for there is only one chance at this thing we call life and a girl isnt worth your only shot, get with your friends, your family, do things you couldnt do with her, stay as busy as you can, and never give her the slightest idea your hurting, just cut her off 100%. I hope you will not do some dumb shit man, take my advice bro, there are many people who care way to much about you, if you were to live all this time just to end up a suicide statistic, think about that, you worth more then a number on a piece of paper, you have passions, interests, friends, family, we are all here for you bro, and your worth alot more than you think, she doesnt make you who you are, you do, you were looking for a girlfriend when you found her, keep your head up bro and take it easy, i hope you can have a great X-mas still and you take the time to heal over this, lifes full of ups and downs and the road gets bumpy sometime but there is always a smooth road along the way, keep looking for it, you will find it!!!

[🪦 Homicidal#9 ●]

pm sent Todd....take care,Tommy

[🪦 Glockink ●]

Man all i can say is that as bad as things may seem now....it all happened for a reason. There is something better out there for you...you may not know it now, or tomorrow...but when the time is right all the cards will fall into place...keep your head up...keep busy...things will turn around. They always do.

[🪦 JOEY ●]

<!--quoteo(post=289391:date=Dec 21 2008, 11:39 PM:name=Glockink)<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(Glockink @ Dec 21 2008, 11:39 PM) <a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=289391\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--quotecMan all i can say is that as bad as things may seem now....it all happened for a reason. There is something better out there for you...you may not know it now, or tomorrow...but when the time is right all the cards will fall into place...keep your head up...keep busy...things will turn around. They always do.<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndYep, pretty much what he said. Keep busy, surround yourself with people that can be there for you in some way or another. Just stay strong man. It just takes time.

[🪦 Dahone ●]

It may not be as reassuring...But "Time" – heals all broken hearts.Been there and then some.....and those are words to live by!

[🪦 Crash ●]

Can't say more than what's been said, but i'll give you two reasons not to do something stupid . . . Nicholas and Brandon. Imagine how they'd feel without a father around.

[🪦 joey1975 ●]

hey bro dont get discouraged ive been with my gf for 15 years now we broke up a few times and i know how you are feeling man dont give up it happened for a reason maybe to give room for an even better love dont even think of putting a gun to your head especially if you have kids a woman isnt worth it bro keep your head up high and things will be better before you know it . i know what you are thinking DO NOT DO IT MAN MERRY CHRISTMAS HAPPY HOLIDAYS9I KNOW ITS HARD MAN BUT BE POSITIVE MAN YOUR KIDS NEED YOU ITLL BE OK

[🪦 Chainsaw9 ●]

Dude. If you're contemplating ending your life.. PLEASE don't look to ANY groups for help.. you should call the Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433).People there are trained to handle situations like this and are more qualified to help you out! Don't get me wrong, the people here are great and ALL have good advice.. but if you'reseriously thinking of putting a gun to your head.. that's a bit more for the professionals. Keep reading these words of advice here and hopefully they will provide some comfort.. butcall someone before you do something you can't take back. I've been there myself and have more than my share of loss over the year.. and more than once thought about how easierit would be to pull a trigger and be done with it. Luckily, I have a family that loves me and realized that the hurt eventually goes away. Some times it goes away on it's own.. and other timesit's replaced by someone else for you to love. I totally understand that nothing anyone is saying now will make a difference and doesn't make the hurt go away.. but you have to trust in somethingthat isn't easy. Like people have been saying, things happen for a reason and there will be someone else that comes into your life for you to love.. trust the people that have been there.Just don't do anything that you'll regret and can't take back later... There are people trained out there for this and also care about you! Trust them if you have to... I won't go through any more cliches... just know that there are people out there that care about you and NEED you.. don't let them down. Take it easy and write here as often as you want! Let us know what's going on!!Take care man!DaveChainsaw9