05-29-2005, 10:20 PM
In several situations where I broke up, after I got past the depression, I realized I was more in lust than in love. And as soon as I was with a new girl and sleeping with her, I soon got over the last girl. It\'s kind of sad, but it\'s true and I think thats typically how the male mind works. How many of you would date a girl and the thought of sex never enter your mind, and you wouldn\'t care if you never got any from her ever? Would you marry someone if you would never get sex from them? Do you think you could love someone that much and also enough not to go sleep with someone else? I wouldn\'t recommend drinking heavily. That causes some serious health problems. I tried that once, and ended up blacking out a few times. One time I woke up on the bathroom floor and had lost several hours. Just remember, everyone\'s been dumped before and your story minus the fire is not the worst I\'ve ever heard. And then I\'ve also heard worse stories including the fire. Like everyone else has said, just hand in there and you\'ll get through it.