Life/love Sucks

[Fang]

<!--QuoteBegin-knewby+Jun 25 2007, 06:00 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(knewby @ Jun 25 2007, 06:00 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBeginFor the love of manhood.....DO NOT confess your love to her once she's shit on you. No matter how hard it seems you MUST act like you don't care and move on. Crap she's already got you thinking its your fault she screwed another guy..gimme a break. She's just hoping you'll stand by in the shadows like a lap-dog in case her man now doesnt work out and she can have someone to fall back on and take advantage of. Dont use the dog as an excuse to talk to her either....go out..have fun.......Don't let your dignity go down the crapper.........Larry<div align=\"right\"><a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=225853\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndPREACH IT BROTHER!

[🪦 PREMATURE INKER ●]

Seriously man..Just Pm me some details and i can have someone over from Hong-Kong here this week....interested?.J.

[🪦 Dagon ●]

<!--QuoteBegin-PREMATURE INKER+Jun 25 2007, 07:42 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(PREMATURE INKER @ Jun 25 2007, 07:42 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBeginSeriously man..Just Pm me some details and i can have someone over from Hong-Kong here this week....interested?.J.<div align=\"right\"><a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=225856\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndLmao.

[Fang]

<!--QuoteBegin-PREMATURE INKER+Jun 25 2007, 06:42 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(PREMATURE INKER @ Jun 25 2007, 06:42 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBeginSeriously man..Just Pm me some details and i can have someone over from Hong-Kong here this week....interested?.J.<div align=\"right\"><a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=225856\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndI am.

[🪦 adam ●]

<!--QuoteBegin-WHATSINTHEBOX?+Jun 25 2007, 04:47 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(WHATSINTHEBOX? @ Jun 25 2007, 04:47 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBeginHey now I care for my fellow man just like the rest. Was just tryin to lighten up the topic. Read my other reply. We all have been through this woman crap at one time or another and It sux donkey. So I am sorry if I sounded brash I keed I keed. Hell only if we can get paid like the Dr.............<div align=\"right\"><a href=\"index.php?act=findpost&pid=225838\"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndYeah I know, I was just joking with you. <img src=\"http://forums.NIGHTOWLpro.com/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tongue.gif\" style=\"vertical-align:middle\" emoid=\"\" border=\"0\" alt=\"tongue.gif\" />But dude, don't let your guard down. Now that she's screwed you over, you've got to keep your guard up. Be cool like Fonzi. You don't care about her now. You don't feel emotion toward her, only indifference. Don't give her leverage. Even if it isn't quite how you feel, put that off. Don't just lay down and take it again man. Trust me, after all this crap has happened and you tell her you still love her, that only comes back to hurt you. She's not worth your love or concern anymore, so what you've got to work on is falling out of love. Don't even show dislike toward her. The part that really bothers them is indifference and not seeing them as anything special than anyone else.And Martoch, dude, don't let a little jealousy screw things up in your marriage. It's usually not a huge single problem that causes problems in a relationship, but a bunch of smaller, trivial things that go unaddressed or handled wrong that build up into a big problem. I wouldn't look at it as seeking out someone on myspace like it was a lust type thing. People search people they know on myspace and it's not as big a deal as you think. Plus, if they're bored enough, they'll look through all their pics and everything. Don't think she's cheating by clicking a pic on someone's myspace. You guys seem to be a great couple and you know who she comes home to every night and doesn't come home to. Like Eva said, she wouldn't risk messing up such a good thing she has going. You're the man. Just take things a little calmer haha.

[🪦 Cory ●]

<!--QuoteBegin-Dagon+Jun 25 2007, 05:22 PM<div class=\'quotetop\'>QUOTE(Dagon @ Jun 25 2007, 05:22 PM)</div><div class=\'quotemain\'><!--QuoteEBeginThere's been a couple of times in our relationship were she's said "We just act like friends. I want you to treat me like your girlfriend" so I couldn't help but somehow think this situation could have been avoided had I tried a bit harder to show my feelings.<!--QuoteEnd</div><!--QuoteEEndA girlfriend is a friend...and should be a great friend if you want a lasting relationship. I read a quote once that goes something like this..."a relationship that isn't built on friendship is like a house built on sand." That quote really got to me. It's a perfect metaphor for relationships. You should be able to sit around and just enjoy each others' company just like you do with your boys. A girlfriend to me is basically a great friend who I enjoy more intimate times with. If she cannot appreciate this then she's not mature enough for a lasting relationship. My ex was my friend for 2 years before we dated. This ended up making our intimate relationship the best I've ever had. I know alot of people do something called "the friend zone" where they say they know you too well to date. That is garbage. Why not date the person you know the best. I don't see a problem with that. Perhapss if people did this more often then divorce and break-ups would be on the decline rather than increasing each year.